Wishes, Regrets and 'It's Time'
Wish and if only for the past, the present and the future, and the it's time family, with the tense each one takes.
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Wish: the Three Situations
Wish: the Three Situations
*Wish* expresses a desire for something that is not the case. The tense after it depends on the moment you are talking about, and it is always one step back into the past.
1. The table to memorise
| Situation | Structure | Example | What is true | | :--- | :--- | :--- | :--- | | Present | wish + past simple | I wish I had a car. | I do not have a car. | | Past | wish + past perfect | I wish I had worked harder last year. | I did not work hard. | | Future | wish + would + stem | I wish they would stop polluting. | They keep polluting. |
2. A wish about the present
The verb goes into the past simple, although the situation is present.
- I **wish** I **were** a rich man. *(I am not rich)*
- I **wish** you **stopped** smoking. *(you have not stopped)*
- She **wishes** she **knew** the answer. *(she does not know it)*
- We **wish** we **lived** nearer the school. *(we live far)*
With the verb *to be*, careful English uses were for every person: *I wish I were…*, *I wish he were…*. The form *I wish I was* is heard in speech but is not what the exam expects.
3. A wish about the past
The verb goes into the past perfect (*had* + past participle). This is the grammar of regret: it is too late.
- I **wish** I **had revised** more before the exam. *(I did not)*
- He **wishes** he **had not said** that. *(he said it)*
- They **wish** they **had listened** to the warning. *(they did not listen)*
4. A wish about the future
The structure is wish + would + stem. It expresses impatience or a complaint about something that continues.
- I **wish** we **would live** in a corruption-free society one day.
- I **wish** it **would stop** raining.
- I **wish** you **would listen** to me when I speak.
One restriction: we do not normally use *would* when the subject of *wish* and the subject of the second verb are the same person. Instead of *I wish I would go*, we say *I wish I could go*.
5. The reasoning behind the tenses
The rule looks strange until you see the logic: every wish moves one tense backwards.
- present → past simple;
- past → past perfect;
- future → *would*, which is the past of *will*.
6. Practice
A. Complete with the right form.
- I wish I ______ (speak) three languages.
- She wishes she ______ (not sell) her old bicycle last year.
- I wish the neighbours ______ (make) less noise.
- He wishes he ______ (be) taller.
B. Say what is true.
- I wish I had a computer. → ______
- I wish I had taken the earlier train. → ______
- I wish she would answer my messages. → ______
If Only
If Only
1. The same grammar, a stronger feeling
If only follows exactly the same tense rules as *wish*, but the emotion is stronger. Where *I wish* is a quiet regret, *if only* is close to a cry.
| Situation | Structure | Example | | :--- | :--- | :--- | | Present | if only + past simple | If only I knew the answer! | | Past | if only + past perfect | If only I had listened to my teacher! | | Future | if only + would + stem | If only they would tell us the truth! |
You can almost always replace *I wish* by *if only* and keep the sentence correct:
- I wish I had revised harder. → **If only** I **had revised** harder!
- I wish I were on holiday. → **If only** I **were** on holiday!
2. Punctuation and position
*If only* usually opens the sentence and is often followed by an exclamation mark, because it carries feeling.
> If only I had known!
It may also be completed by a second clause:
> If only I had known, I would have acted differently.
Notice that this second form is simply a type III conditional with *if only* in place of *if*.
3. Choosing between the two
| You want to… | Use | | :--- | :--- | | state a desire calmly | I wish… | | express strong regret or frustration | If only…! |
Both are correct in the exam; *if only* is the one to choose when the question asks for "a strong feeling of regret".
4. Other ways of expressing regret
- I **regret** not revising more. *(regret + -ing)*
- I **regret that** I did not revise more.
- I **should have** revised more. *(should have + past participle)*
- I **shouldn't have** wasted so much time.
- **What a pity** I did not go!
- It's **a shame** they did not come.
The structure should have + past participle is worth memorising: it says in four words what a whole type III sentence says.
> I failed because I did not revise. → I should have revised.
5. Practice
A. Rewrite with *if only*.
- I wish I had studied medicine.
- I wish the government would fight corruption seriously.
- I wish I were able to help you.
B. Rewrite with *should have* or *shouldn't have*.
- He told her the secret, and he regrets it.
- She did not check the expiry date, and the food was spoiled.
- They did not book the tickets in advance, and there were none left.
C. Express the regret in two different ways.
> *Situation: you spent all your money and now you cannot travel.*
It's Time, It's High Time, It's About Time
It's Time, It's High Time, It's About Time
1. What they mean
These three expressions say that something should happen now — and, when they carry *high* or *about*, that it should have happened already.
- **It's time** you revised your lessons.
- **It's high time** the government took serious measures.
- **It's about time** we changed our eating habits.
| Expression | Nuance | | :--- | :--- | | It's time… | It is the right moment. | | It's high time… | It is late; this should already have been done. | | It's about time… | Same reproach, slightly more familiar. |
2. The tense rule
> After *it's time* + subject, the verb goes into the past simple, although we are speaking about the present.
- It's time you **went** to bed. *(you are still awake)*
- It's high time he **found** a job. *(he still has none)*
- It's about time they **stopped** wasting water.
This is the same backward shift as *wish* and *if only*: the past tense marks something that is not real yet.
With *to be*, careful English again prefers were: *It's time you were more serious.*
3. The other structure: *it's time* + infinitive
When there is no particular subject to name, the expression takes a plain infinitive with *to*:
- **It's time to go.**
- **It's time to revise** for the exam.
- **It's time for us to leave.** *(with "for + person")*
Compare the two:
| Structure | Example | Focus | | :--- | :--- | :--- | | it's time + to + stem | It's time to leave. | The action, generally. | | it's time + subject + past simple | It's time we left. | A reproach addressed to somebody. |
4. The mistake the exam looks for
| Wrong | Right | | :--- | :--- | | It's time you go to bed. | It's time you went to bed. | | It's high time he finds a job. | It's high time he found a job. | | It's time we will change our habits. | It's time we changed our habits. |
5. Practice
A. Put the verb into the correct form.
- It's time you ______ (start) revising seriously.
- It's high time the authorities ______ (do) something about pollution.
- It's about time we ______ (be) honest with each other.
- It's time ______ (go) home.
B. Rewrite using *it's high time*.
- The government should fight corruption now.
- You should stop eating so much junk food.
- We should reduce our consumption of plastic.
C. Which structure fits?
- It's time ______ (we / leave) — a reproach to the group.
- It's time ______ (leave) — a simple statement that the moment has come.
Practice and Review
Practice and Review
1. The whole family in one table
Every structure in this lesson shifts the verb one step into the past.
| Structure | Verb form | Example | | :--- | :--- | :--- | | wish / if only + present situation | past simple | I wish I had more time. | | wish / if only + past situation | past perfect | I wish I had come earlier. | | wish / if only + future situation | would + stem | I wish it would stop raining. | | it's (high / about) time + subject | past simple | It's time you took a decision. | | it's time + no subject | to + stem | It's time to take a decision. | | should have + past participle | past participle | I should have taken a decision. |
2. Choosing the right structure
| The situation | Say | | :--- | :--- | | You do not speak English well and you regret it. | I wish I spoke English better. | | You failed last year because you did not work. | I wish I had worked harder. / I should have worked harder. | | Your brother keeps interrupting you. | I wish he would stop interrupting me. | | Your friend is twenty-five and still has no plan. | It's high time he made a decision. |
3. Mixed exercise
A. Complete with the correct form.
- I wish I ______ (know) the answer to this question.
- If only she ______ (tell) me the truth yesterday!
- It's high time the company ______ (improve) its working conditions.
- I wish people ______ (not throw) rubbish in the street.
- He wishes he ______ (not buy) that counterfeit phone last month.
B. Rewrite without changing the meaning.
- I am sorry I did not revise the passive voice.
→ I wish
- You should stop smoking now.
→ It's high time
- I did not warn him, and he had an accident.
→ I should
- Unfortunately, I do not live near my school.
→ If only
C. Say what is true behind each wish.
- I wish I were on holiday. → ______
- She wishes she had accepted the job. → ______
- They wish the neighbours would be quieter. → ______
4. Answers to check yourself
A. 1. knew — 2. had told — 3. improved — 4. did not throw — 5. had not bought.
B. 1. I wish I had revised the passive voice. — 2. It's high time you stopped smoking. — 3. I should have warned him. — 4. If only I lived near my school!
C. 1. I am not on holiday. — 2. She did not accept the job. — 3. The neighbours are noisy.
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